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X is for Xanax – Natural Alternatives for AnXiety

When the stress of life really gets to you, don’t you just feel like just tearing all your hair out?  Bad hair days are just plain depressing for naturally beautiful women, HELP!!!

Western medical doctors will most likely prescribe a pharmaceutical drug for depression or anxiety.  And if you ever read those ads or watch those commercials, the side effects you can get from these will surely make you anxious and depressed –Dizziness, decreased libido, nausea, erectile dysfunction, confusion, blurred vision, drowsiness, decreased concentration – and the best side effect of all? – Depression.  Isn’t that why you went to the doctor in the first place?

This is just a list of the short-term side effects – imagine what would happen if you took Xanax or some other anti-depressant for a long time!

So what can you do when life gets to be too much?  Don’t worry – there are natural health alternatives that will lift you up and help you to get back on the road to wellness and happiness!

GABA (gamma amino butyric acid)–Reduced levels of GABA, the neurotransmitter that works to calm you down and relax, have been shown to bring on symptoms of severe stress and anxiety.  Supplementing with GABA can have naturally tranquilizing effects.

Ashwagandha– An Ayurvedic herb which can help your body to adapt and reduce the mental and physical signs of stress.

 L-Theanine–Another valuable neurotransmitter found in green tea, L-theanine works on the brain to reduce mental and physical stress.

Valerian–Valerian (see previous post V is for Valerian vs. Valium) reduces the physical signs of anxiety and stress such as muscle tension and helps you get a good night’s sleep – valuable in fighting depression and stress.

Certain foods can help calm you down as well.  Turkey (think post-Thanksgiving dinner) and warm milk contain tryptophan (see T is for Tryptophan – Try it for Tranquility) which will make you very sleepy.  Almonds and bananas contain magnesium which relaxes your muscles and also helps to promote restful sleep.

So don’t reach for unhealthy pharmaceuticals such as XanaX when you need some help with depression or anxiety.  Go for some safe, non-toxic remedies and take care of your natural health!

 

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W is for Wild Rose – A Wise Way to Cope with Woe – Bach Flower Remedies

Bach Flower Remedies for Natural Health

Bach Flower Remedies were discovered by Dr. Edward Bach (1886-1936), an English homeopathic physician who theorized that  behind each disease lies an emotional imbalance and that optimum natural health depends on being in harmony with one’s soul.   According to Dr. Bach, when a person remains in emotional distress for a long enough period of time, this distress will manifest itself in the body as a physical symptom.

Each of the Bach Flower Remedies is said to work on a specific human emotion -

Agrimony – mental torture behind a cheerful face – Laughing on the Outside while crying on the inside.

Aspen – fear of unknown things

Beech – intolerance of others’ differences

Centaury – the inability to say ‘no’

Cerato – lack of trust in one’s own decisions

Cherry Plum – fear of the mind giving way to often wrong impulses

Chestnut Bud – failure to learn from mistakes

Chicory – selfish, possessive love

Clematis – dreaming of the future without working in the present

Crab Apple – the cleansing remedy, also for self-hatred

Elm – overwhelmed by responsibility

Gentian – discouragement after a setback

Gorse – hopelessness and despair

Heather – self-centredness and self-concern

Holly – hatred, envy and jealousy

Honeysuckle – living in the past with no hopes of future joy

Hornbeam – tiredness at the thought of doing something

Impatiens – impatience

Larch – lack of confidence

Mimulus –  fear of known things

Mustard –  deep gloom for no reason

Oak –  the plodder who keeps going past the point of exhaustion

Olive –  exhaustion following mental or physical effort

Pine –  guilt

Red Chestnut –  over-concern for the welfare of loved ones

Rock Rose –  terror and fright and a remedy for emergencies

Rock Water –  self-denial, rigidity and self-repression

Scleranthus –  inability to choose between alternatives

Star of Bethlehem –  shock

Sweet Chestnut –  Extreme mental anguish, when everything has been tried and there is no light left

Vervain –  over-enthusiasm to be right, stubbornness

Vine –  dominance and inflexibility, pig-headedness

Walnut –  protection from change and unwanted influences

Water Violet – pride and aloofness

White Chestnut – unwanted thoughts and mental arguments

Wild Oat  - uncertainty over one’s direction in life

Wild Rose – drifting, resignation, apathy – This is particularly helpful for people who have lost interest in life and have stopped caring about anything.

Willow – self-pity and resentment

 

 

 


 

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W is for What to do When your World is Woeful

Live Positively for your Natural Health

When bad things happen to good people, what can they do to get on with their lives, even when life isn’t fair?

Shit happens. Life sucks.  It’s not fair.  Yell. Scream.  Cry.

Did that help?  Maybe yes, maybe no.  The truth is, this next moment comes no matter what you did the last moment.  (It’s been said that people who consider suicide don’t really want to die, they really want things to be different and better).

Some days, you might just want to pull the covers over your head and stay in bed and feel sorry for yourself.  Problem is, what are you going to do tomorrow?

If you stay in bed for too many days in a row, then you have to go find help.  Find a therapist.  Find a spiritual advisor.  Join a 12 Step Program.  Get help.

If you can actually pull yourself out of bed and want to face the next moment and the next day, here’s some tips to get you going in the right direction.

1.  Accept the fact that things are going wrong right now.   Take your time to allow the bad feelings to register.  Feel bad.  Then remember that This Too Shall Pass.

2.  Stop.  Take a breath.  Concentrate on your breathing.  In.  Out.  In.  Out.  Repeat.

3.  Get a massage.  Take a hot bath in relaxing scents.  Drink some chamomile tea.

4.  Watch a funny movie.

5.  Play with a pet or a child.

6.  Go out and help someone worse off than you.

7.  Eat some chocolate chip cookies and drink hot chocolate (for non-diabetics only).

8.  Make some art.  I once started a collage without any idea what my intention was – when I finished, I had a large poster of smiling mouths and faces.  Every time I looked at it, I couldn’t help but smile!  (It took no talent, so don’t worry about that for goodness sakes!).

9.  Get some fresh air.

10.  Look up – at the sky, at the ceiling.  Lift up your arms.  Open your mouth.

Say –  Zip

A

Dee

Doo

Dah!

Repeat.

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O is for One – The Loneliest Number

I’ve heard it said that being lonely is not the worst thing, but staying lonely is – and it can be harmful to your natural health.  One really is the loneliest number, whether it’s sung by Three Dog Night, Harry Nilsson (who wrote the song), or Aimee Mann in the movie, “Magnolia.”  Few things are worse than being alone day after day and night after night.

When being along becomes an integral part of your life, it’s not so easy to get up and get going and find people to be with.  Sometimes being in the midst of a crowd of people is what makes you feel the loneliest, especially if you are the only lone person in the room.  No matter whether there are a hundred people at the party or two, if you are there by yourself it can get pretty lonely.

There is a basic, human need to connect and when those efforts are frustrated, “we connect artificially” by befriending non-humans.   Much as we love our pets and as much pleasure as they might give us, it’s not the same as a human connection.  And all the “friends” we make on Facebook cannot take the place of a real live human being.  We need to find a way to reach out to people, even if it seems an unreachable goal.

It’s not the number of relationships,  it really is the quality of those relationships that determines whether you feel socially isolated.  You may have people around you throughout the day or you may even be in a lifelong marriage, yet you may feel a deep down loneliness.   Being by yourself is a miserable lot, but being in a relationship and feeling alone is even worse.

See next post – O is for Overcoming LOneliness for Older Women

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