The first thing you should know about Dating Dos and Don’ts is Do as I Say, not necessarily as I Do! I’m learning these principles my own self, so please give me any feedback you can!
I just read a wonderful book entitled “If I’m So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?” by Susan Page and learned that if you want to date you have to be sure about it and not be ambivalent. You have to honestly believe that having a relationship is the most important thing to you, and believing that will make it happen. Another example of the Law of Attraction.
And there are certain things to do and don’t -
Do be honest and realistic about your wants and needs.
Do put yourself out there where other people are.
Do try to be relaxed and not tense.
Do enjoy your life as much as possible whether you are with someone or single.
Do have fun!
Don’t lie – what will you do when the truth comes out?
Don’t bring your excess baggage with you on your first date.
Don’t get drunk or otherwise incapacitated.
Don’t get stuck in a rut with your initials judgments. Give the person a chance, maybe even two.
Don’t overdo the makeup or the sexy clothes – be your own fabulous natural beauty!
Don’t stop living just because you’re single – Do Go Out and Have Fun! See Previous Post – D is for Dancing and Dating on a Saturday Night!